Today is the 16th anniversary of 9/11/01, a day that changed America.
In looking through my past posts I can't believe I never wrote about what happened that day. Maybe because I prefer not dwelling on unpleasant topics? A few years ago I began posting 'rememberance' posts on 9/11 but I never shared my experience. Today I'm changing that.
Spouse & I lived in Arlington VA, the same town where the Pentagon is located. Our home was exactly 6 miles from it, and we passed it every time we got on the highway. I had been laid off for about 2 weeks and Spouse decided to take the day off "because it was so pretty outside" and spend a few hours with this sister. Indeed, it was a beautiful September day: sunny, warm but not hot, and low humidity. Spouse left in my BMW 325i convertible with the top down and I sat down in front of the computer to do my daily job search.
Probably a 1/2 hour later Spouse returned and yelled up the stairs to me "A plane crashed into the World Trade Center and another one crashed into the Pentagon!" Of course I thought this was some incredible story he'd concocted to explain why he'd returned to the house, when in reality he'd probably just forgotten his wallet or something.
"What did you forget - your wallet?" I replied, sarcastically.
"No, I'm serious! Come here!" he said with real urgency. I immediately came downstairs and joined him in the TV room where he'd turned on the local news. It wasn't some fantastical story he'd fabricated. It was real. We sat on the sofa for what seemed like days, trying to figure out what had happened. It didn't take that long before it was clear the plane crashes weren't "accidents". By then news of the 2nd tower being hit and the plane crash in PA was filtering in.
"I can't believe this is happening" I said, truly frightened for the 1st time in my life. "What's next? How will we know when its over? Maybe we should get in the car and drive as far away (to the West) as we can" I offered. But it was too late for that. News reports were already showing road closures and gridlocked traffic.
Many people who work in the metro DC area ride the metro system to and from work, like my Aunt Mary, Spouse's brother, sister-in-law, and brother-in-law. But while the metro system was still operational, most people were afraid to use it, wondering if it might be the next target. No one liked the idea of possibly being trapped or crushed in one of the many underground tunnels.
Cell phone service was spotty with the cell towers being overloaded with attempted calls. But we eventually received calls from my Aunt Mary, Spouse's brother and sister-in-law. They were going to walk from their offices to a landmark in Arlington where I would pick them up. We were unable to coordinate this with Spouse's brother-in-law who'd already begun walking.
As I drove out of our neighborhood I began hearing sirens and seeing the flashing lights of police cars. Officers were setting up roadblocks on the main roads that would take me to the agreed upon pick-up location. Several times I had to make an unscheduled turn, drive through a residential neighborhood, cut through a business parking lot, and even drive across a lawn and off a curb when I got trapped. I was literally trying to beat the officers from closing me out of the area I needed to get to. A trip that would normally take 10 minutes took me nearly an hour, but I eventually got to the rendezvous point and picked up our family. Spouse's brother-n-law actually walked all the way to our house (more than 6 miles) where his wife (Spouse's sister) was waiting for him.
We remained glued to the TV for several days, hoping to hear answers. All commercial air traffic was suspended for 5 days (I believe) so it was rather eerie for us to hear fighter jets occasionally pass over our home. Spouse's mother was in Italy and due to return home that day. Her vacation was extended not by desire, but by necessity.
In the days and weeks following the horrible tragedy there was a strengthening of America. For a while there were no Democrats or Republicans; just Americans. There were no rich or poor; just people grieving losses.
Each year on this date I'm always a little worried another terror attack will occur on the anniversary. Fortunately its not happened, although many other terror attacks have occurred since then on other, seemingly unrelated dates. Its become clear to me that terror will never end unless there's a worldwide commitment to peace and understanding.
'Tales of the Sissy' is a play on words related to Armistead Maupin's novel 'Tales of the City' which chronicles the daily lives of several seemingly unrelated people. Since my blog chronicles my daily life and I am gay (hence the stereotype 'sissy'), I decided to call my blog 'Tales of the Sissy'.
Showing posts with label terror. Show all posts
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Monday, September 11, 2017
Monday, June 13, 2016
In the wake of tragedy
By now everyone is painfully aware of the horrible massacre that took place early yesterday morning at the nightclub in Orlando. With similar terror attacks in movie theatres, restaurants, shopping malls, concert venues, airplanes, and Federal buildings, it is understandable that some people don't feel safe going anywhere now.But I urge everyone to not become a victim of fear. Rather than becoming paralyzed by the fear of a potential terror attack, I urge everyone to ACT, as fellow blogger Fearsome Beard has done. You can easily send an email to President Obama and Vice-President Biden using THIS LINK.
Here is my letter, nearly identical to Fearsome Beard's well-worded letter:
Dear President Obama/Vice-President Biden,
Please do not delay in pushing forward responsible, sensible gun control. Assault weapons have no place outside of law enforcement and military use. Handguns need only be in the hands of thoroughly vetted responsible citizens and in limited numbers….if at all. The tragedies we endure can and must STOP.
Freedoms are actually limited in a free society. They are limited by the freedom's infringement on the safety and security of fellow citizens. Of this I am sure you are quite aware. I believe in you and implore you to do the right thing by pushing forward and holding those controlled by the gun lobby responsible for our recent tragedies.
Thank you for your years of service. You are an inspiration. You have accomplished many great things and your legacy improves not only the United States, but the world as a whole. May sensible gun control become part of your legacy to the absolute best of your ability.
Sincerely,
In addition to writing the White House, also consider writing your other elected officials. How can we complain if we have done nothing to demand change? We need more than tears and prayers for the victims; we need action.
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